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THE BALANCING ACT
The only FREE weekly publication dedicated to
Helping you create a life of Health, Wealth, and Balanced
Abundance in today's hectic world.

August 28, 2003 Volume 1, Issue 8

Liz Thompson, Publisher
mailto:lthompson@healthywealthynwise.com

Meredith Landino, Managing Editor
mailto:mlandino@healthywealthynwise.com

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WHAT TO EXPECT IN THIS ISSUE:
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- Note from the Editor
- Message from Our Sponsor
- HABITS: The Comfort in our Discomfort
- A question from our readers
- This Week's Resource
- Quote of the Week
- Inspirational Story
- Your Success Tip
- Copyright and Publisher Information
- Legal Stuff

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NOTE FROM THE EDITOR
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This week's issue of The Balancing Act is jammed full of helpful,
positive information to help you create YOUR life of choice, from
improving your habits to protecting your eyesight. Be sure to
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forwarding your copy of The Balancing Act to those you know would
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what will make each issue even better for you, our valued reader!

Sincerely,

Meredith Landino
mailto:mlandino@healthywealthynwise.com


REMEMBER: Each month we will dedicate one entire issue to
answering your questions. If we don't know the answer to your
question, we'll find someone who does! Simply send an email to
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MESSAGE FROM OUR SPONSOR
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Special Free 8-Week Teleclass: "Staying in Love: 7 Steps to
an Open Heart and Mind"

During this 8-week series, Chris and Janet Attwood (featured
on the July cover of Healthy Wealthy nWise) will teach you
the practical tools from their upcoming book Staying in Love
When the Marriage is Over. At the conclusion of the eight
weeks your life will have changed.

You will:

· understand the relationship between your emotional body
and your physical body and why it's important

· have experienced the nature of emotional expansion and
contraction

· know why contraction is natural

· have learned The 7-step Expansion Process for dealing with
any upset

· know the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual tools
allowing you to open again when you shut down

· understand how to avoid "falling out of love" again

· know how to tap into the bliss of unconditional love

· have the secret to a happy, fulfilled life

As a subscriber of The Balancing Act, you can attend this
amazing class, absolutely FREE! This course will not be
offered for free again, so register NOW!

To register go to:
http://www.stayinginlove.com?Page=17

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HABITS: THE COMFORT IN OUR DISCOMFORT
by Wendy Jameson
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Let's talk a minute about our habits.

I just love my habits, and that's good, since some of them are
not so helpful. I have great habits like exercising every day and
washing my face at bedtime, but I also have some nasty habits
that keep me from getting myself and my business to the next
level (like extended coffee breaks).

The "stickiness" of our habits depends not only upon how long
we've had them, but also upon how much we get out of them. It may
be hard to believe that we benefit from bad habits, but believe
me, it's true.

Look at smoking. Intellectually, all of us know smoking is bad
for our overall health. Yet, how many people continue to smoke,
in spite of that knowledge? What do they get out of it? Some say
there's pleasure in inhalation... others say it's "my one vice."

Whatever our reasons, there's comfort in our habits, despite the
discomfort they may give us. We continue to go back to what's
known because what's known, although uncomfortable, is
psychologically easier than what is unknown. What is unknown is
frightening, and we'd rather know what to expect than fear what
could be.

The only way out of bad habits is to let go of fear and find new,
more positive habits to replace the old ones - like sugar-free
lollipops for smokers. Whenever we remove something from our
lives, we need to find something else to fill the void, or the
absence will create longing.

Take some time this week and make a list of your bad habits. Note
the benefits and the costs, and explore what could replace them.
Pick one or two and work on them for 21 days (the time it takes
to create new habits). See how free your life can be!


ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Wendy Jameson, MA, offers life and business coaching through her
company, Potentiate (www.potentiate.net). She's the author
of The Low Carb Survival Guide e-book and co-creator of the
email-based Self-Manager Success Program. Wendy lives in Gilbert, Arizona
with her husband and two boys.
wendy@potentiate.net

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A QUESTION FROM OUR READERS
by Meredith Landino
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QUESTION:
Richard from Tennessee writes...

    Five years ago we invested in stock options, and lost our
    shirt. We're fine now, but my wife does NOT even want to
    risk $300 to start a business at home. She is just too
    afraid. With this attitude from my wife, there is no
    support to get a business going.

    Anyone have any ideas how I can turn her around? Mind
    you, I will not start anything without her at my side. We
    are a team, and you can't be pulling in two different
    directions!

SUGGESTION:

This is, unfortunately, a very common situation. We need to think
of this, not only in terms of money, but of fear. It seems as
though it is not the loss of $300 but the fear of loss itself
that is troubling your wife.

Fear is a very powerful emotion. Once imbedded within our psyche,
it is VERY hard to overcome. I have found that, for me
personally, if I recognize my fear, I can then work to get past
it. If I don't work to eliminate my fear, I'm letting the fear
rule me instead of living my life as I choose. Here is a classic
example of what I am talking about.

At 17 years old I went horseback riding. We were out filming a
movie and the cameras spooked the horse. I am not the best of
equestrians, so I had a close and personal meeting of the minds
with a rock. A two-day hospital stay in and out of consciousness
did nothing to endear me to riding again. However, as soon as I
was able, I was back at the stables. Though, granted not on the
same horse. Nevertheless, I was back in the saddle, literally.
Now I am able to go riding without the fear of falling and I
truly believe it's because I worked to overcome my fear when it
arose.

Instead of stock options (the horse that threw you), why not try
an investment that you have some control over and that is not so
fickle (i.e., MLM, real estate, information marketing, etc.)?
Maybe, actually having some idiom of control over the outcome,
will help your wife to feel more comfortable.

Sincerely,

Meredith Landino
mailto:mlandino@healthywealthynwise.com

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THIS WEEK'S RESOURCE
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"How to Control Your Destiny through Your Attitude"

In Success Without Struggle: How to Control Your Destiny Through
Your Attitude, you'll learn:

· Ten simple, positive, no-fail strategies for injecting success
into every area of your life.

· Exactly what kinds of goals to set for yourself - and how to
break them down into easily doable steps that will get you from
where you are to where you want to go before you know it!

· How to avoid becoming overwhelmed... and get more done more
easily than you ever thought possible!

· Why taking time off isn't a bad thing - in fact, it can
actually help you reach your goals more quickly! (How great is
that?)

· The one incredibly important thing that only 10% of business
owners do and why it's no coincidence that they're the most
successful 10%!

· How to laugh your way to better health and greater success!

· What the three C's are and why it's critically important for
you to avoid them.

Plus, Joan shares nine very specific, easy-to-implement steps to
creating a more positive attitude. You'll learn:

· How to eliminate worry from your life (yes, it really can be
done!).

· How to automatically get people to respond positively when they
see you - each and every time.

· How "failures" can be turned around and lead to opportunities
you might never have considered before.

· And much, much more!

This is, very simply, one of the most uplifting, motivating,
information-rich e-books you'll ever read! A remarkable amount of
wisdom is packed into about 45 pages. How to Control Your Destiny
Through Your Attitude can help you completely turn around your
life - and lead you to accomplishments you previously thought
were out of your reach!

http://www.healthywealthynwise.com/products/attitude/attitudesl.htm

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SPECIAL FREE 8-WEEK TELECLASS: "STAYING IN LOVE: 7 STEPS TO
AN OPEN HEART AND MIND"
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During this 8-week series, Chris and Janet Attwood (featured
on the July cover of Healthy Wealthy nWise) will teach you
the practical tools from their upcoming book Staying in Love
When the Marriage is Over. At the conclusion of the eight
weeks your life will have changed.

You will:

· understand the relationship between your emotional body
and your physical body and why it's important

· have experienced the nature of emotional expansion and
contraction

· know why contraction is natural

· have learned The 7-step Expansion Process for dealing with
any upset

· know the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual tools
allowing you to open again when you shut down

· understand how to avoid "falling out of love" again

· know how to tap into the bliss of unconditional love

· have the secret to a happy, fulfilled life

As a subscriber to The Balancing Act, you can attend this
amazing class absolutely FREE! This course will not be
offered free again, so register NOW!

To register go to:
http://www.stayinginlove.com?Page=17


Every issue of The Balancing Act contains a resource that we
believe to be of value to you, be it a book, a software program,
an audio or video tape, etc. We hope you'll share your knowledge
and insight with other readers of The Balancing Act by reviewing
these resources and allowing us to share your opinions in a
future issue. Simply send your review to
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QUOTE OF THE WEEK
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" Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition,
there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty
waiting to be born."
- Dale Turner

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INSPIRATIONAL STORY
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Thomas Edison tried two thousand different materials in search of
a filament for the light bulb. When none worked satisfactorily,
his assistant complained, "All our work is in vain. We have
learned nothing."

Edison replied very confidently, "Oh, we have come a long way and
we have learned a lot. We now that there are two thousand
elements which we cannot use to make a good light bulb."
- Author Unknown

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Long ago in a small, far away village, there was place known as
the House of 1000 Mirrors. A small, happy little dog learned of
this place and decided to visit. When he arrived, he bounced
happily up the stairs to the doorway of the house. He looked
through the doorway with his ears lifted high and his tail
wagging as fast as it could.

To his great surprise, he found himself staring at 1000 other
happy little dogs with their tails wagging just as fast as his.
He smiled a great smile, and was answered with 1000 great smiles
just as warm and friendly. As he left the House, he thought to
himself,"This is a wonderful place. I will come back and visit it
often."

In this same village, another little dog, who was not quite as
happy as the first one, decided to visit the house. He slowly
climbed the stairs and hung his head low as he looked into the
door. When he saw the 1000 unfriendly looking dogs staring back
at him, he growled at them and was horrified to see 1000 little
dogs growling back at him. As he left, he thought to himself,
"That is a horrible place, and I will never go back there again."

All the faces in the world are mirrors. What kind of reflections
do you see in the faces of the people you meet?
- Author Unknown


How to Submit an Inspirational Story for Next Month's Issue: We
are always looking for inspirational stories to share with our
readers. One of the best things about Healthy Wealthy n Wise is
bringing together people from all walks of life in various stages
of success and letting them learn from each other. We encourage
you to send in your story and share with your fellow readers.
Simply send your story
mailto:BalancingAct@healthywealthynwise.com?subject=My_Story .

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YOUR SUCCESS TIP
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Loosening your neckties may help save your eyes.

If your shirt collars, ties, or scarves are worn too tightly
around your neck, it could have an impact on your eyesight,
research suggests. In a recent study, a necktie that was tied too
tightly increased the pressure of fluid within the wearer's eyes.
Over time, such increases in fluid pressure could raise a
person's risk of glaucoma.

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COPYRIGHT AND PUBLISHER INFORMATION
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The Balancing Act is Copyright (c) 2003 by the Metis Group. All
rights reserved worldwide. No part of this publication may be
reproduced without express written permission from the publisher.

Liz Thompson, Publisher
Meredith Landino, Managing Editor
The Metis Group
401 S. Fairfax Boulevard
Ranson, WV 25438 USA
Phone: (304) 725-2502
Fax: (304) 728-3068
Email: mailto:lthompson@healthywealthynwise.com   or
mailto:mlandino@healthywealthynwise.com
Website: http://www.healthywealthynwise.com

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